Expectation：期望

好像，常常都活在别人的Expectation之下。。


小时候，父母亲的Expectation
读书后，老师的Expectation
年轻时，朋友的Expectation
工作后，老板的Expectation
结婚后，伴侣的Expectation

自己的Expectation呢？

好像常常都忘了。。

因为都是为别人而活。。

何时，才能为自己而活呢？

别人的Expectation，这一生好像永远都避不开似的。。。从出身到长大到老。。




人生最糟的Expectation，莫过于吝啬老板的Expectation。
最好的经典如下：

"Let me tell you, as a graduate, I have certain EXPECTATION on you, and don't always ask me how,what to do. You should be the one telling me what you're going to do and I am the one who decide whether you have done it right or wrong."


"Boss, let me tell you too, as an employee, I have certain EXPECTATION on you not to expect too much from us based on the pay you pay me. If I know the answer, I would not have asked you. If you don't know what to do, just say you don't know, don't tell me your big story! Don't waste our time since time is so important to you. See, now you have loss a few hundreds dollar just to tell me your big story."